4 Steps to The Perfect Online Dating Message
For some reason, women are still really hesitant to send the first message on online dating. Despite only 17 percent of women still thinking the men should pay on a first date a tradition I wish would just disappearwe're less progressive when it comes to online correspondence.
I mean, if men are sending all those messages then straight women are getting approached anyway, right? But it turns out women who message first are not only more likely to get replies, they're more likely to get hotter dudes — seriously. According to the report: " Women rarely reach outno matter their circumstances.
They analyzed the type of people that users send messages to and found that "men are reaching out to women 17 percentile points more attractive, and women contact men who are 10 percentile points more attractive. When women send the first message they end up with dates 30 percent of the time, compared to 12 percent of the time when guys message first again, talking about straight people here.
Plus, you don't have to wade through some of the weird, weird messages you get on OKCupid looking for the good ones — you make the good ones.