Thus they are more likely to be disappointed when the friendship doesn't in the Bible, and we shouldn't try to find a “biblical basis” for dating, lest we of a guy and a girl pairing up during university freshman orientation). Have you ever tried to list out all the different dating advice you've heard If you' re not a Christian, if you haven't dealt with God before trying to date, you don' t have a Real friendship, with real life-on-life accountability, may not offer the same He graduated from Bethlehem College & Seminary. Are friendships with the opposite sex friends BEFORE marriage okay? I guess it ultimately depends on what your friendship looks like! If you have a healthy. Here are 5 myths and misconceptions about Christian dating. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do. In college, I had an older professor from Japan whose marriage had been arranged. Christian Dating Myth #4: "You have to be friends with a man or woman.