I'm An Asian Woman And I Refuse To Be Fetishized Flash forward a few months and I'm on another first date with another white guy. Another reads: “She probably dated a village of White guys before a belief that Asian women shouldn't date outside their race–and that as.
We live in a society where white supremacy and systemic racism are norms, and people of color — especially men — are often demonized and looked down upon. Chen tells Tran that her matchmaking service, which is targeted toward Asian people, sometimes receives requests from women who only want to date white men. She says dating is more all-around difficult for Asian men. Chen says her Asian clients looking for non-Asian partners sometimes think of Asian men as "nerdy" and "less engaging.